How to attract women?

Most guys think that they know the answer to this question!

When you ask them, they are going to tell you something like these:

1. Compliment her

2. Be a jerk

3. Buy her expensive things

4. Say nice words to her

5. Be abusive

6. Show her you love her

7. Buy her a diamond

This does not work, at all, and if you keep on doing these, you will end up losing most of your money and your mind too.

Women are very complicated, this one needed to be cleared from the very beginning, and to attract them, you are going to need a whole new set of skills.

• The first skill that you will need to attract women is: manhood 

This one alone can break most attractions and if a woman doesn't find it in a man, she will never be satisfied with him and will always be looking for a real man, even when she is in a marriage.

What do I mean by manhood?

It's you accepting yourself as a man.

This is the mistake I see with most guys; they think that women will love them for something external, for example: a great car, a big bank account, great body, new designer cloths …

This can be a little attractive; however, women are going to feel real attraction for you because FIRST, you are a man.

Another huge issue I see most often with guys that don't accept themselves as true men is that they will try to look feminine, they are going to behave "gently" and they will even feel disgust of their masculine traits.

Women are attracted to REAL MEN; they will never feel attraction for a boy man or an immature guy.

To become a fully grown up man, these are the areas and the skills you will need to master:

• The first one is your way of dealing with problems and troubles. 

In other words, if trouble reaches you, how would you behave?

A boy man would look for someone to "fix" it and/or he will run away from responsibilities.

A grown up, mature, man will take charge and take full responsibility.

• The second skill is body language 

This is the way you are going to communicate to a woman that you are attractive and that you are not a disguised looser.

If you feel that your body language is always failing you, try to read the article on this website about attracting women with body language.

• The third skill is: a mature boundary. 

If you don't know what this is, think of it as your limits, where you would say yes and where you would say no.

This will sound like something totally useless in our discussion about how to attract women, but as you might have already seen with a lot of women, they are going to push you over and over and even sometimes treat you like you are their slave!!

This is why a fully grown up boundary is so essential to attracting women.

When a woman does things to you that you don't approve of, for example, she makes fun of you in a mean way in front of the others, she tries to get you to buy her everything she wants and if you don't, she will get angry, she considers you a second class human by ignoring you when you talk or degrading you… you should show her how much boundaries you have got and say to her: NO 

No is the best way to create an immediate attraction in a woman; whenever she tries to pull your strings, you just look her right in the eyes and say NO to her in a mature confident way.

• The fourth skill is confidence. 

This is what women will first test in you; whether you are a confident guy or a weak guy?

To build up confidence, there are many techniques and tips, all of them are grouped in the body language section of this site.

The most effective method to gain huge confidence in a matter of weeks is to start using visualizations ever morning.

When you wake up, you wash your face and drink some water and then, in a nice calm setting, imagine yourself interacting with other women and you do it with a great confidence and calmness.

This is the same method I've used to get my confidence handled with women, and the most wonderful thing about it is that it will work in just two to four weeks.

• The fifth skill you need to master with women in order to create attraction in them is a great sense of humor. 

With women, you don't just need a good sense of humor, you need a great one.

Women will get bored with everything in their lives very quickly.

And if you say the same "funny things" over and over to her, she will soon replace you.

To master your sense of humor with women, you need to spend sometimes developing it.

The best approach I've found is to first start watching funny shows and humorous actors every day and second thing is to hang out with funny people.

Remember, "A laughing woman is an attracted woman".

• The sixth important skill you need to attract women is independence. 

Remember these words and why not writing them and put them where you can see them every morning when you wake up:

"Needing is loosening"

The moment you need anything in life, be sure that you will lose it sooner or later.

This can be applied not to just women, but to jobs, friends, welfare ….

Some of the most amazing guys at attracting women have told me that they have never cared whether a woman liked a place or what they are saying or doing; they simply live their lives the way they want.

Always be independent with women, you are going to find that they will be the ones to approach you and feel attracted to you.

You can learn about all these skills in greater details in the article section of this website, there you are going to find all the necessary resources to answer your question: "how to attract women?", follow the exercises you will find in each article and try to take notes while reading, a short pen is better than a large memory.

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Noah Alam